Waylon Jennings, a cornerstone of the outlaw country movement, released “Lovin’ Her Was Easier (Than Anything I’ll Ever Do Again)” in 1971 on his album The Taker/Tulsa. The song, while not originally written by Jennings, became a defining moment in his career, showcasing his raw vocals and ability to deliver a powerful heartbreak ballad.
Composed by Kris Kristofferson, another legend of country music songwriting, “Lovin’ Her Was Easier” taps into a universal theme of lost love and its lingering effects. While Kristofferson himself released a version later in the decade, Jennings’ rendition struck a chord with audiences, becoming a staple of his live shows and a radio favorite. Ronny Light, Jennings’ longtime producer, deserves credit for recognizing the song’s potential and including it on the album.
“Lovin’ Her Was Easier” isn’t a flashy, upbeat country tune. It’s a slow burn, built on a bed of melancholic acoustic guitar and weeping steel guitar. Jennings’ voice, weathered and worn, perfectly embodies the protagonist’s emotional state. He doesn’t shy away from the raw pain of the lyrics, delivering each line with a conviction that resonates with anyone who’s ever experienced a devastating break-up.
The song’s success wasn’t limited to critical acclaim. “Lovin’ Her Was Easier” became a commercial hit, reaching the Top 10 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart. This achievement speaks volumes about the song’s ability to connect with listeners on a deep emotional level. It transcended genre lines, finding appreciation from fans of traditional country and those drawn to the outlaw movement’s grittier sound.
“Lovin’ Her Was Easier” stands as a testament to Waylon Jennings’ ability to deliver a powerful vocal performance and breathe life into a song that captures the complexities of love and loss. It’s a song that continues to resonate with listeners today, solidifying its place as a classic of the country music genre.